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XxsharpglassxX
11-19-2005, 01:36 PM
Right, I am in my last year of high school, and at the beginning of last year I met a great girl who I sat next to in my history class, let's call her 'Katy'.

Anyway, me and Katy got talking and it turned out we have similar interests and we hit it off well. As the year progressed, it turned from not even acknowledging each other in lessons to hugging each other at the start and finish of every lesson and stopping to talk to her whenever I saw her.

Now, there's my best friend 'Michael'. Michael was in Katy's media studies class, but didn't start talking to her until very recently and they seem to get on quite well too...

Katy keeps saying to me that Michael is the love of her life and that she loves him, but keeps moaning that he hates her. I don't know if she's serious or not, because I thought she liked me.. maybe she's trying to make me jealous for some strange reason.

Michael says to me that he does hate her, and thinks she's ugly, but he obviously doesn't really hate her as he talks to her all the time, often taking over my conversations when she comes over. So I don't know what he's really thinking...

Now obviously I'm upset because I thought me and her had a thing going on, but now she seems to prefer my best friend who she's known for a good year less and he has told me he hates her and thinks she's 'ugly as sin' (she's not, she's stunningly, uniqely beautiful in my opinion).

Now, even if she does prefer him I could eventuallly get over that, fair enough, but the problem is I couldn't take it if she went for my best friend who has said all these horrible things about her, because she's too good for that shit.

Now, what do you think I should do? I'm still in love with her, but I don't know what shes' trying to tell me... is she saying she prefers Michael? Is she trying to make me jealous so I'll try harder?
Should I just give up and go out with her best friend 'Jean' instead, because she is hot too, although on a more ordinary scale...

Ideally, I'd be going out with Katy and Michael and Jean would all be happy and we'd all be best friends, but the likelihood of that happpening is slim.

What should I do? Please help! I need Katy, I really do... the love I have for her is so strong that it actually hurts thinking about it, I thought love was meant to be great fun... I can't do anything with full concentration, because of her... when the weekend starts the first thing I can think of is getting back to school so I can see her again, she's just so beautiful...

I am the lightning rod
11-19-2005, 02:12 PM
suicide is the only answer...

the_GoDdEsS
11-19-2005, 02:19 PM
Want some razorz with that user name?

Take this shit to a teenie magazine, frigid vagina.

Offspring7
11-19-2005, 02:28 PM
I thought the guy was a girl at first. Except your a guy, I hope. And your talking about drama, much less high school drama. My advice is don't worry about it, and love should be mutual. It might be hard to accept, but she might not love you back. And are you and Katy dating? Or just best friends, because she may feel free to date this Micheal guy if she doesn't know you have feelings for her.

JohnnyNemesis
11-19-2005, 02:28 PM
Take this shit to a teenie magazine, frigid vagina.

I have something to say in response to that:

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xaylene
11-19-2005, 02:42 PM
Let's just say that she's not worth it and leave it at that. You're in your last year of high school so just leave the chicks until you get into college/university. Why don't you just talk to your mom about it. You have alot to learn about women and maybe she can help you.

JohnnyNemesis
11-19-2005, 02:42 PM
^Your sig is pathetic.

EDIT: Thanks for changing it.

offspring fan
11-19-2005, 02:55 PM
you joined to say that?
well thats just stupid

T-6005
11-19-2005, 03:29 PM
....Go out with Jean. Make her jealous.

Nina
11-20-2005, 12:03 AM
Just TELL HER and stop acting like a fourteen year old. Honesty is the best solution here. She can be a bitch about it and act strangly after you tell her how you feel about it, but then you know that she wasnt worth it anyway.
And I am seriously clueless as to why all of you are such assholes about it. If somebody else had posted this topic you would have either bashed him more (if you didnt like him) or answered seriously (if you liked or at least respected him). Assholes.

Endymion
11-20-2005, 12:41 AM
it's not rape if she smiles through the tears.

T-6005
11-20-2005, 12:45 AM
I declare this thread worthwhile because it's got the words "frigid vagina" in it.

JohnnyNemesis
11-20-2005, 12:46 AM
I declare this thread worthwhile because it's got the words "frigid vagina" in it.

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