Sex

[Maria Cortez]

It is something extremely important to me personaly and privately. Just because I'm still waiting for the right man to breed little wonderful offspring's with. And all that great things in life has to offer but maybe in the near future I hope. Sometimes my mum is happy & proud of me that I am all pure virginal so to speak, but not me though like, my stuff is getting rather frustuated and still standing strong to not give it away to any random (only to a real true love soulmate). Anyway, only time shall tell though, I don't know, but all I really know is very much so; Imma end up with someone completely/differently opposite and hella Intelligent & Beautiful. Thank you for patiently reading. I do infact appreciate it alot.


Feel free to give out you're freedom of speech. Am willing to learn from others opinions\perspectives\point of views etc... & Vice Versa.


Discuss.

[Al Coholic]

Holding your virginity is overrated. Its cool as an adolescent but once you've reached adulthood I'd say it's a mistake.

For starters, virgins are emotionally immature. Most fall really "in love" with their first, even though they don't really know what that feeling is. You need to go through a couple relationships and make the classic mistakes - being too emotional, too clingy, having experiences with cheating, etc. This all preps you for being a viable partner in a real relationship. You'll inevitably screw things up with Mr. Perfect if you don't date around first.

Secondly, in the 21st century, you won't meet Mr. perfect from the get-go, and even if you did, he aint waitin for y'all to date forever before putting out. Sex is an integral part of a relationship.

Thirdly, its just not a big deal. You want to lose your virginity in some kind of ultra-romantic setting you only see in movies? Better start casting for some kind of classic cherry popping porno, cause as said, you only see that shit in movies.

Just understand that you have only second-hand notions of what sex/relationships are all about(and many of those are probably from fiction anyway) and you're actually hindering your later relationships by remaining inexperienced and emotionally immature.

[Al Coholic]

Also I'm pretty sure you're atleast partially a troll.

[JohnnyNemesis]

Everything you just said is completely and utterly true and perfect.

[IamSam]

Can you do the kinda stuff that only Prince would sing about?

[Bipolar Bear]

There's nothing wrong with casual sex. It won't make your true love relationships any less good. Being difficult is a mistake too many people make. Sex is fun.

[Maria Cortez]

Can't we all just get along? and shut up with this Troll thing. I'm just a girl.


Al Coholic: I 110% agreed just about everything you've said. Thanks.

Well, except for one thing though, Yeah, I may be emotionaly weak but mentaly head strong enough to challenge and conqure and fight for my own motherfucking rights in this fucked up world.

Needless to say, as far as my virginity is concerend; I shall stay true to myself. My heart is very tender but I do care about peoples feelings.

Atleast, someone here answered my question. Sorry, but I seriously don't have any one to talk too with my stuff 'cause they obviously get annoyed and irritated with me for some shady reason.

p.s. I'm a sucker for romance and a hopeless one as well. Damn, am I a keeper?!.

[Bipolar Bear]

sex is simply rubbing

[Maria Cortez]

Yes. This. Thank you very much BB!! I 110% agreed and cannot disagree.

[SweetTatyana]

Of course everyone to counter are guys :P jk..

I must say, I was reading a cosmo yesterday, and the poll said that 65% of girls regretted having sex so early, 65%!! I waited till I was 19, which I think is a fair age, and I have never regretted it for a second. It's true though, it matters who it is and what you mean to them (and vice versa of course!). If it is that important to you, then I commend your decision and urge you to stay strong.