Benefits of abortion

[Llamas]

I'll give you a legitimate reason. People are horny, ignorant fucks. You'll never get abstinence to work in our society.

This sounds like you're saying that anyone who doesn't want a kid who is having sex is a horny ignorant fuck. You might be right, but is that really what you're trying to say?

[WebDudette]

I'm assuming I was tired at the time. I just meant that people will always, always, be having sex, whether they want a baby or not. It is just something humans do. I think I was just trying to reinforce my belief that teaching abstinence is ridiculous and is just going to lead to more unprotected sex. I don't feel that every couple having sex are ignorant fucks, only the ones who do it carelessly and unprotected.

Also, still very tired, but uhh... far less angry then I was when I posted that, or something.

[TakesMeNowhere28]

Answer to your first question, i call it necassary. at the end of the day, i dont believe it is a human life until it has been born. The living person is the most important. you are saying you would rather give the mother and father the pain of having to give up their child, to know that their child is growing up somewhere else and them not be able to see it?

Answer to question two. no.

Answer to question three... yes you have defined murder, but a fetus only has the potential to be a human life.

Answer to question four... You are wrong, you can get pregnant, maybe not physically.. but if you impregnate a woman, that baby is as much yours as it is hers. When i had a scare, my boyfriend was just as important as i was when deciding what we would do if the test came back positive. He would have been just as pregnant as me. As for the not thinking i can afford a child. i am a 17 year old student who is on minimum wage and works only 4 hours a week. of course i cant afford it, not to mention that my parents would kill me. But at the end of the day, i never miss a pill, i go to the doctors every 6 months, we dont take risks. yes, contraception fails, but at the end of the day, sex is an important part of a relationship and i think you are being very naive by saying "if you dont want a baby, dont have sex"

Yeah, well, I'm a firm believer in the phrase "life begins at conception". If it's not alive while still in the womb, it wouldn't need necessities such as food and oxygen. Also, it wouldn't kick either. And yes, I would rather the mother and father give the child a fair chance to live a life instead of screwing it out of life because they decided they don't want it.

As far as the "sex is an important part of a relationship" thing, I'm going to conclude that such a stupid remark came from you because you are only 17. There are far more important things in a relationship than sex. You can't seriously be suggesting that couples shouldn't be together if they don't plan on having sex all the time. You are a clear example of how today's youth are going right down the shitter. You think it's okay to have sex all the time because you have pills to take and if you "accidentally" get pregnant, it's okay because you can just kill the baby. It's so damn simple, right? We live in a society that cares more about saving whales than saving human life.

[AllIn All It's Not So Bad]

There is this tag that says "new bad religion song." What is the new bad religion song. is it the tittle of the thread "Benefits of Abortion?" or something else.

[_Lost_]

TakesMeNowhere, you are clearly wise and in the know of how serious relationships work.

[T-6005]

As far as the "sex is an important part of a relationship" thing, I'm going to conclude that such a stupid remark came from you because you are only 17. There are far more important things in a relationship than sex. You can't seriously be suggesting that couples shouldn't be together if they don't plan on having sex all the time. You are a clear example of how today's youth are going right down the shitter. You think it's okay to have sex all the time because you have pills to take and if you "accidentally" get pregnant, it's okay because you can just kill the baby. It's so damn simple, right? We live in a society that cares more about saving whales than saving human life.

I was originally going to say something about how you could be taken as slightly exaggerating, then I realized you were right.

For me, there's no relationships without constant sex all the time, without or without contraceptives. I am a firm believer that sex is more important than personality.

[SweetTatyana]

We live in a society that cares more about saving whales than saving human life.

Yes, with the astronomical amounts of money poured into health care, pharmaceuticals and other biomedical measures to keep people healthy/alive, clearly we care more about the whales - who are disapearing at an alarming rate and only about 1/1000 people do anything to help them.

[SweetTatyana]

As far as the "sex is an important part of a relationship" thing, I'm going to conclude that such a stupid remark came from you because you are only 17.

This is NOT a stupid remark actually. From a neuroscience prespective, several hormones are released by the brain during sex/orgasm (ie. oxytocin) that are actually paramount in pair bonding (added closeness and strength in your connection).

[_Lost_]

Not to mention that it feels really, really good.

[SweetTatyana]

not to mention that it feels really, really good.

+10!!!