The Sex Thread

[Gordie]

if you are here to find free porn, or what not, well im srry youve come to the wrong place

this is the sex thread

i want you all to share everything that you have an opinion about that has to do with sex.. this could be anything from experiences, to thoughts, to questions, to anything else thats on ur mind

to start this thread off, i was just wondering what your thoughts about un-protected sex.. and/or pre-marital sex



my opinions :
un-protected sex... a few ppl that i know have said(including my gf) that sex without a condom is 100x better than sex with, even so, i still dont think that, at my age of 17 i should be having unprotected sex for any reason, i know from family issues what happens when u have unprotected sex, and its not fun (cousin had 2 kids).. so is it worth the risk for the extra pleasure???

pre-marital sex... i say go for it.. i mean then again it depends on ur beliefs right.. i personally dont see anything wrong with it.. im not permiscuous, ive only had my gf.. and thats all.. so i dont see what the big deal against it would be....


now, its ur turn

[.TripGirl]

i jst love any type of sex with any tipe of person
im a slut

[Nicole]

...
It's called the pill. And you should get your partners STI checked anyways.

[.TripGirl]

wissdom nicole, wissdom

[Nicole]

That haircut does nothing for you, Tripgirl.

[.TripGirl]

oh i know... but i just love it!
dont you?

[sKratch]

I've had unprotected sex 2 or 3 times, and it was stupid on our part. I mean, you can only physically get pregnant something like 1 week before your period, and it was nowhere near then, so really it was safe, but there's always that "what if?" Luckily, I don't have any sons or daughters to speak of. But we don't plan to do that any more, until we live together and it's worth it to do the pill thing. You can always stick it in without a jimmy and then at some point take it out and slap one on. There's always pulling out and jizzing on the tits or what have you, but I'm of the pursation that it wouldn't be as gratifying. I've heard that pre-ejeaculatory fluids could contain some sperm but I really don't know how capable those are of ensemination.
Hmm I've just remembered about a time when my friend asked me if I had had sex with my girlfriend that day.
"Nah, wrong time of the month for that"
"Dude that just means you don't need a condom"
That's one thing I would definitely never do... waigowaghwa;g nasty.

[Hysteria]

I've had unprotected sex 2 or 3 times, and it was stupid on our part. I mean, you can only physically get pregnant something like 1 week before your period, and it was nowhere near then, so really it was safe, but there's always that "what if?"

Same here, its always at the back of your mind until that 'time of the month', there's not really any escaping from it. My gf is on the pill as well, but it still didn't stop me thinking the 'what if?' .

And that last bit about what your friend said is nasty!

[The_Next_Ron_Welty]

Anal sex is funny.

[sneedo]

I agree, anal sex IS funny.

I've never participated in that act though, I'm not sure I desire to.

I've had more unprotected sex than protected, and I'm thankful, however right now I'm handcuffed to condom use since my new girlfriend was a virgin when we met and she is waiting for her first papsmear (tomorrow) to get on the B/C pill..

I can't wait for the unprotected sex to come into effect again, it's the best indeed.

[The_Next_Ron_Welty]

anal is better

[sneedo]

I'm almost glad and ecstatic that i don't have a frame of reference.

[JoY]

I'm pro birth control in the form of a tiny daily pill. god yes, that fucking thing rules. I still have to get tested on STDs however & obviously (I found this out yesterday, because I'd said it in a state of irrationallity & forgotten about it) I told my boyfriend I'd had safe sex before him, so he might want to let himself get tested, too.

sex before marriage? no discussion there. there's NO reason whatsoever you can't have sex with someone you love, because you haven't (yet) got a piece of paper (thought up by humans, NOT God. there's no way God would ever think up a contract that binds you for eternity.), that says you'll stay together forever & ever.

[sneedo]

What about the morning after pill?

[JoY]

What about the morning after pill?
not a major fanatic of it. do you have any idea how sick that assholic thing can possibly make you feel?? & *whoop* you're in your period again. & not just any period; the period from hell.
on top; if I didn't take the pill, I'd have to take the morning after pill every other day, or so.


Justin -neither do I.

[sneedo]

The morning after pill is just like 3 doses of a regular birth control pill to prevent you from releasing an egg, perhaps we are not thinking of the same thing

[JoY]

true. but that dose of hormones *can* make you feel incredibly sick.

[sneedo]

I still think we are talking about a different thing, I think i know what you are talking about though, ah my lesbian looking roommate just informed me that they are two different things.

[JoY]

either way, a morning after pill wouldn't do me any good. I'll openly confess, that I know jack shit about them, besides that they are a major bunch of hormones, that kept my friend in bed for a good day, or two.

[sneedo]

speaking of jack, how often do you jack? on average, I'm probably down to twice a day :'(

[JoY]

have we suddenly switched to masturbation here? I'm trying to keep up, I really am.

[sneedo]

yes we have

[JoY]

in that case; I don't masturbate these days. you see, a guy came along. I have sex as many times as you masturbate. I'm the Cool.


AHERM. ;)

[sneedo]

I have sex that often too, but yes, jackin is still on the menu, check your pm :o

[JoY]

oh right.

anyway... as much as I am horny, I save it all up to exhaust my darling boyfriend with.

[Sunny]

Personally, I love Depo-Provera... 99.7% effective and you get the shot every 3 months. I'm stupid when it comes to pills, I always forget to take them ;/ so it's the best thing for me. I have unprotected sex cause I'm a) in a monogamous relationship and b) we're both tested and STD-free.

masturbating? hah. often.

[sneedo]

I exhausted my girlfriend a couple of days ago, it was rockin, but then I made her stay awake so we could go out to lunch :)

[JoY]

Personally, I love Depo-Provera... 99.7% effective and you get the shot every 3 months. I'm stupid when it comes to pills, I always forget to take them ;/ so it's the best thing for me. I have unprotected sex cause I'm a) in a monogamous relationship and b) we're both tested and STD-free.

masturbating? hah. often.
now -that- would be an ass kicking solution for me, too. though I'm really getting the feel of one a day. these days I hardly ever forget one.
& I only have the a). working on the b), but if anyone is walking around with a STD, it'd be me. so I guess I'm the one who should get tested. *sigh*

[sneedo]

That's not a positive outlook Joy

[Sunny]

gah i freaked out the other day cause i found out that my ex boyfriend cheated on me with a NASTY NASTY NASTY skank while we were dating... and if i got her STDs, I would flip the fucking hell out.

gross.

but nope, thank god.

[sneedo]

Please don't call me a nasty skank :(

[sKratch]

I really don't jerk off too much any more... except for those one-week periods every month or so ;o Even then, there's always blowjobs etc to keep my own hand away. Ah, that's one thing I love about menstruation--Sometimes it leads to the greatest blowjobs ever.

[Gordie]

I really don't jerk off too much any more... except for those one-week periods every month or so ;o Even then, there's always blowjobs etc to keep my own hand away. Ah, that's one thing I love about menstruation--Sometimes it leads to the greatest blowjobs ever.

hahah SOOO true

[JoY]

I really don't jerk off too much any more... except for those one-week periods every month or so ;o Even then, there's always blowjobs etc to keep my own hand away. Ah, that's one thing I love about menstruation--Sometimes it leads to the greatest blowjobs ever.
yeah, we do our best.

[Vera]

Oh no, it's the overshare topic!

*closes her virgin eyes, walks away*

[.TripGirl]

i jst love any type of sex with any tipe of person
im a slut
man, im telling you, its all about diversity
pussy licking is awesome
and cocksucking too

[Eccentric Sara]

Haha - I love it when guys are grateful and make you feel like the greatest person alive just because you've gone down on them and swallowed their semen. Isn't it nice to feel wanted?!!!! :D :rolleyes:
And the answer those questions at the beginning of the thread- sex before marriage - why the hell not? Like Joy said,you don't need to have a piece of paper to prove your love and being married doesn't make the sex any better (quite the opposite,in some cases!),so why wait, or indeed why get married at all? I'm certainly not that fussed about marriage.
Unprotected sex - wouldn't touch it with a barge-pole. I am WAY too paranoid about my health,and don't have much of an affinity with children,so am not very keen on having my own,at least not for a while. I ensure that a guy 1- has had an STD test and 2 - isn't fooling around with other ppl before I even give him head. You can catch STDs like HIV by giving head,so why risk it? (And yes,before ppl point it out,there is the flavoured condoms option,but from experience,I know that it is not really worth giving head at all if the guy is wearing one -at least from the guy's point of view.)

[UgLy_eLf]

This is the first time I've ever heard of getting pregnant only one week before a period, when the chick is ovulating I take it-- But you've gotta worry about it even before that because sperm can live in a womans body for up to a week, and if you had sex a little less than the week before and those critters are still in there when she ovulates you're fucked? I don't know I dont play around with unprotected sex, children freak me out, not to mention pregnancy alone has got to be the most disgusting thing I have ever seen happen to a woman.

There was a discussion earlier last year to make the morning after pill more accessable by making it over-the-counter medication, but the Christians freaked out and shot that idea down quick, it would be immoral somehow to keep our teenagers from becoming pregnant, because we all know kids will do the right thing and stay abstinent, hah.

[Betty]

The "natural" method or whatever (based on ovulation) is really really bad in terms of effectiveness. Women have different cycles and sperm live different amounts of time, etc, etc.

I'd be terrified to have unprotected sex if not on the pill, and even being on the pill, I am still somewhat scared, even though I never forget to take it. I just have never heard a good answer regarding how closely you have to stick to taking it at the same time everyday. Personally I like condoms because a) they can sometimes make my boyfriend last longer and b) sperm dribbling down my leg for a day is not the most pleasant.

Also, I won't go into details, but I can have sex during that time of the month all I want.

[ThrashedThrasher]

Unprotected sex seems edgy before marriage but I don't necessarily see anything wrong with it. I for one don't plan on NOT using protection just because I don't feel like getting pregnant before I finish school not to mention I'm a hell of a lot younger than the rest of you. Other people, on the otherhand, it's their choice and if it comes down to it, it's their fault if they are faced with the costs of their decisions. My cousin is a year older than me (15) she now has a 3 month old child and my friend who is 16 is currently pregnant. I don't hate them for the fact that they are/have kids I pity them. How they could be so ignorant I don't know. Especially knowing that my cousin can't raise a fucking child, she's too stupid. My ex impregnated some chick when he was 14, he now has a 3 year old daughter that he'll never see because the mother of the child has full custody over the kid. It's all just because the few idiots in the world can't take the time to use protection and then give people that don't use it a bad rep. And for those of you that say sex is like way better without a condom, my boyfriend says the same thing (he fucking HATES condoms to no end)he just doesn't follow along with his sayings because he doesn't feel like impregnating a 14 year old.



As for Pre-Marital sex...Who fucking cares? How one could wait until marriage to fuck I'll never know. Not saying that I'm an overly horny teenager but it just seems stupid to wait. I'm not getting married til I finish college which won't be til I'm about 24 years old, that'd be one hell of a wait to lose my virginity. Then again I suppose your religious beliefs play along with what you do and don't do as well which is why I fuckin' hate religion , it fucks with everyone's minds.

[sKratch]

I for one don't plan on NOT using protection just because I don't feel like getting pregnant before I finish school not to mention I'm a hell of a lot younger than the rest of you.
Haha oh man I was going to rip you apart because I read that as "I for one plan on NOT using protection just because I feel like getting pregnant before I finish school not to mention I'm a hell of a lot younger than the rest of you."
That misreading made it quite hilarious.

Anyways, today was our 14 month anniversary and I must say, it was grand.
She made me dinner, lemon merange (sp?) pie from scratch, and then a blowjob. double you zero zero tee

[meaning_of_life]

hmm i reckon blowjobs are overrated. ive gotten them from a few different girls and they all seem the same... average. not complaining though :D

[JoY]

some girls tend to be more creative with their tongue & stuff, than others.
I know my boyfriend loves the fuck out of blowjobs.

[meaning_of_life]

yeaaah, thats true. i dont know why i dont like em that much :/ its not the quality i dont think, cos ive been with a girl who was apparently 'the blowjob queen" and it took forever. maybe i need viagra at the tender age of 17 :eek:

[Talman]

yeaaah, thats true. i dont know why i dont like em that much :/ its not the quality i dont think, cos ive been with a girl who was apparently 'the blowjob queen" and it took forever. maybe i need viagra at the tender age of 17 :eek:

i've had head from a few different girls. I mainly find it just "nice". nothing spectacular. But one certain lady gave incredible head. Still, even though it's not as good as you expect it doesn't stop me wanting more.

[Talman]

Unprotected sex seems edgy before marriage but I don't necessarily see anything wrong with it. I for one don't plan on NOT using protection just because I don't feel like getting pregnant before I finish school not to mention I'm a hell of a lot younger than the rest of you. Other people, on the otherhand, it's their choice and if it comes down to it, it's their fault if they are faced with the costs of their decisions. My cousin is a year older than me (15) she now has a 3 month old child and my friend who is 16 is currently pregnant. I don't hate them for the fact that they are/have kids I pity them. How they could be so ignorant I don't know. Especially knowing that my cousin can't raise a fucking child, she's too stupid. My ex impregnated some chick when he was 14, he now has a 3 year old daughter that he'll never see because the mother of the child has full custody over the kid. It's all just because the few idiots in the world can't take the time to use protection and then give people that don't use it a bad rep. And for those of you that say sex is like way better without a condom, my boyfriend says the same thing (he fucking HATES condoms to no end)he just doesn't follow along with his sayings because he doesn't feel like impregnating a 14 year old.



As for Pre-Marital sex...Who fucking cares? How one could wait until marriage to fuck I'll never know. Not saying that I'm an overly horny teenager but it just seems stupid to wait. I'm not getting married til I finish college which won't be til I'm about 24 years old, that'd be one hell of a wait to lose my virginity. Then again I suppose your religious beliefs play along with what you do and don't do as well which is why I fuckin' hate religion , it fucks with everyone's minds.


I don't see why everyone always thinks of the condom as the first form on contraception. They're shit. the amount of times i've split/burst them is unbelievable. And let's just say bad circumstances arose. Sex is better without a condom. my gf even says it feels so much better and she'd never use them again. Now she's on the pill and i just pull out before we finish. makes life a lot easier.

[«_ºßäߥ_Ðëvilº_»]

Yeah, I admit I'm still a virgin but when I actually get round to it, I'd want it to be loving and with someone I love and they love me not a quickie with a stranger.

[FlipBoy]

What ever you do DO NOT have sex with one person and marry them. Because you will always have that wonder in the back of your mind...what does another person feel like? And you have a 75% chance that you will end up cheating on your partner.

[Eccentric Sara]

yeaaah, thats true. i dont know why i dont like em that much :/ its not the quality i dont think, cos ive been with a girl who was apparently 'the blowjob queen" and it took forever. maybe i need viagra at the tender age of 17 :eek:I think some guys just enjoy blowjobs more than others. The last guy I was seeing said I gave amazing head :D ,but that doesn't mean that the next guy I do it to will find it amazing. It's all about preferences.

[sKratch]

I rather enjoy them, but if I had a choice I would take sex. Sometimes, however, that's not possible.