Are you afraid of anything?

[Frozen flames]

I must be a very weird person since I`m not afraid of anything so much that I couldn`t handle that fear.
many peole are afraid of dark, failing, social situations, dieing, high places, being raped or beated up..etc.

my opinion is that fear is a good thing in a way, but only if it`s totally under your control.

[Radi0_havana52]

nope i ain't afarid of anything. (at the moment)

i also think death is a buetiful thing. i ain't afraid of death.

[Ditol]

I'm afraid of spiders... grrr...

[«_ºßäߥ_Ðëvilº_»]

I'm scared of death/dying,Hieghts and Jellyfish

[Anya82]

loneliness
being left behind
being forgotten
pain

[Radi0_havana52]

loneliness
being left behind
being forgotten
i forgot about those... :(

[Trip Boy]

I'm afraid of already been done threads.

[NIX-on-the-MAN]

I'm afraid of spiders... grrr...
Same here, mine as a long story that goes with it but I'll "Spare You the Details" :D . Yea, I'm stupid :confused: .

[Noodles is gay]

Trampolines :eek:
and crowded spaces...

humm; i'm just weird methinks. :(

[Frozen flames]

[QUOTE=Anya82]loneliness
/QUOTE]


"I was born alone,
Iwill die alone.
And between these two
I am alone day and night."

-Sengai
(zen wisdom)

[the_GoDdEsS]

I'm afraid of Death and failure. I just can't fail. At anything.

[Frozen flames]

I'm afraid of Death and failure. I just can't fail. At anything.

perfectionism... that bothers me sometimes, too. (not that I would be afraid of failing, sometimes nothing that I do just seems to satisfy me, so...improving..improving...starting from the beginning...improving..)

[the_GoDdEsS]

perfectionism... that bothers me sometimes, too. (not that I would be afraid of failing, sometimes nothing that I do just seems to satisfy me, so...improving..improving...starting from the beginning...improving..)

You've just described my life.

[Frozen flames]

You've just described my life.
haha,
I hate the part :
back to square one

(makes feel like all the time spend before was wasted)

[RXP]

Tampons scare me.

[Inshane]

Tampons scare me.

and tampons are probably scared of me. (not funny)

I am afraid everything I feel now remains and that I will never really find peace and hapiness in life.

[Frozen flames]

and tampons are probably scared of me. (not funny)

I am afraid everything I feel now remains and that I will never really find peace and hapiness in life.
zen might enlighten your Path

[ReDeAdOf89]

spiders...they have no use here

[Rain Girl]

I'm sometimes (Yes, sometimes. It's weird.) affraid of high places and sometimes (Again, weird.) of stairs. I mean walking with other people on the same stairs. (No sense, right?) And I hate clowns.

[Betty]

Not scared of anything.

I went through a phase in my life though as a kid when I was terrified of being kidnapped after watching one of those TV shows about kids being kidnapped out of their backyards or at the park, etc.

[I don't know]

I think I'm afraid of snakes. When I was younger I used to be afraid of dogs(weird, hehehe, a lot of people love dogs and I used to be afraid of them, hehehe :D )

[Radi0_havana52]

I'm afraid of Death and failure. I just can't fail. At anything.
Death ain't that bad...and i'll leave you with this quote

"Trying is the first step to failure"
-Homer Simpson

[BREAK]

I'm afraid of bad things happening to the people that I love. By that same token, the fact that all the people I hate haven't yet been incinerated by bolts of lightning also scares the crap out of me.

[GBH2]

you're back.

[Layna]

Im afraid of LOVE

[Aglaia]

Snakes... :(

[UgLy_eLf]

My reflection, I was blessed with the worst genetics.

[arak0r]

edited: ahh fuck that, doesnt explain what i mean to say, but in effect, ill just say i think anyone that says they arent afraid of anything, are full of shit

[Endymion]

i'm afraid of will smith.

[JoY]

scared to hurt others.
scared to be abandoned.
scared to sink into loneliness & isolation, which is not the same as being alone.

[Tizzalicious]

slugs, snails, spiders, other random insects, loneliness...

[snapsleftguitar]

im scared of straight down heights....that might sound stupid but i mean like....standing on the edge of a cliff or looking down the side of a skyscraper from the roff....but not flying in a plane....tis weird.

im also afraid of lonliness. and emotional pain is weird... i dont put myself through emotional pain intentionally but if i feel angry inside wether its towards a situation or another person....i find it a very good expressive tool and i write some of my best songs when im in pissed off moods....but thats just me.

[Camilamazed]

Yeah......... I freak out when listen to this talking about water.......

I can't stand talking about death either (Specially my parent's) :(

[DUNCS]

The old "Magic Roundabout" scares the sh*t out of me!!!

[americanidiot]

I'm afraid of my mom.

[Mr. Noodles]

im scared of straight down heights....that might sound stupid but i mean like....standing on the edge of a cliff or looking down the side of a skyscraper from the roff....but not flying in a plane....tis weird.
Same for me.
Besides having a fear of heights, I have a fear of spiders.

[Sunny]

I'm afraid of Death and failure. I just can't fail. At anything.

same here. i'm a fucking ridiculous perfectionist.. at everything.

and i'm afraid of losing my loved ones.

[JoY]

same here. i'm a fucking ridiculous perfectionist.. at everything.

and i'm afraid of losing my loved ones.
oh yes. that last one I'm terrified of. especially ones that don't love me unconditionally. well, maybe he does, but.. it's the kind of love that can pass & change. it's the kind of love he could also start feeling for another. oh god, kill me. I'm SO scared to lose my boyfriend. all the fucking time.

[Sunny]

{{especially ones that don't love me unconditionally. well, maybe he does, but.. it's the kind of love that can pass & change. it's the kind of love he could also start feeling for another. oh god, kill me. I'm SO scared to lose my boyfriend. all the fucking time.}}


god.. me too. i am so so so afraid of his love fading or going away or him having such feelings for another girl. we talked about it a lot... and he told me I shouldn't be scared, I should just forget everything that happened with other people in the past, and take the risk, and believe that we're going to be together forever. Because he was scared too and decided that I'm worth getting hurt for, and got rid of all doubts/fears he once had.

but it's god damn hard. i mean i would LOVE to be all like "weee he's gonna marry me and we'll be together forever and live happy lives filled with puppy dogs, candy canes, unicorns, rainbows and random fluffy things". And I believe that he loves me. But it's so fucking hard not to be scared.

[the_GoDdEsS]

same here. i'm a fucking ridiculous perfectionist.. at everything.

and i'm afraid of losing my loved ones.

Eek, me too. I'm paranoid, possessive and jealous. Just terrible.

[Sunny]

we must be related.

[JoY]

but it's god damn hard. i mean i would LOVE to be all like "weee he's gonna marry me and we'll be together forever and live happy lives filled with puppy dogs, candy canes, unicorns, rainbows and random fluffy things". And I believe that he loves me. But it's so fucking hard not to be scared.
*grins*
you expressed that real cutely.
but I understand exactly what you mean. you know, he's real young & I'm real young & we're both growing every day. I refuse to believe we're too entirely mature people, who have seen it all & don't learn a thing anymore in life. it just doesn't go that way. & I love this guy & all his CUTE imperfections so incredibly much. last night I thought of losing him, of how we'd fade into two seperate people in one bed... man, frustrations, grah. I CRIED over the thought. I'm pathetic like that.

the dumb thing is, that I just want to enjoy his presence while there. I just want to enjoy the hell out of him now he's mine & take that with me forever & ever. & I AM enjoying him, but I might not be enjoying him to the fullest, because I'm so insanely scared what will happen when it's over. what will happen to my life, what will happen to -me-.

*deeply inhales*
oh god...

[the_GoDdEsS]

Yeah, probably. Or it's some Slavic genes or I have no idea.

[JoY]

haha, nope. or I have Slavic genes *somewhere*. because I'm goddam paranoid, possesive & yes, also jealous, when it comes to people I love. even though I -hate- jealousy so fucking much.

right now my boyfriend is on ski-vacation & he knows me, so he sends a txt every few days, to let me know he's behaving like a gentleman. haha. but one of his friends already txted me, that some girl over there is after him. the ANGER!!

[the_GoDdEsS]

Makes me feel so relieved that I am not alone. Phew.

[Anya82]

I'm afraid of Death and failure. I just can't fail. At anything.

Include me in the list!! I MUST do everything right! I CAN'T stand failure!

I'm afraid of not being as good in doing things, as I think I am... as I BELIEVE I am...

[the_GoDdEsS]

So many perfectionists! Wow.

[JoY]

normally I'm laid back & don't worry much about failing. I'm not very competitive, or anything. not the biggest perfectionist. but when I have an exam, I start sweating, blacking out.. I've fainted in the past, I've vomited... it's ridiculous. outright silly. in the Netherlands they call it 'fear of failure'. I've seen -therapists- for this, because I kept failing at about everything, because I was so goddam scared. still it took me about fifty times, before I finally got my drivers licence, when I can drive just fine.

bwah, I hate fears. 'n stuff.

[JohnnyNemesis]

I'm scared of sea life, crazy heights, and I don't swim because I have an INTENSE fear of drowning and of the sea.

I'm scared of drowning more than anything, but my biggest fear might be failure. I've experienced it so much that I just can't go back to that point in my life. I'm scared of failure so I overexert myself constantly, even if I can just get by with less. I work hard at everything even if it doesn't require hard work cause I'm so scared :(

[Anya82]

Include me in the list!! I MUST do everything right! I CAN'T stand failure!

I'm afraid of not being as good in doing things, as I think I am... as I BELIEVE I am...

I think it's because I'm a very very proud and even conceited person... shame on me!! :rolleyes: hehee

[original_psycho]

I'm sometimes (Yes, sometimes. It's weird.) affraid of high places and sometimes (Again, weird.) of stairs. I mean walking with other people on the same stairs. (No sense, right?) And I hate clowns.
I forgot to add that I'm affraid of love. I always liked hanging out with guys, but now I'm totally affraid of having relationships with them. Crap!

[Frozen flames]

I forgot to add that I'm affraid of love. I always liked hanging out with guys, but now I'm totally affraid of having relationships with them. Crap!

do you know what things make you afraid of having relationships? any ideas...?

[JoY]

the fear of losing someone again.
the fear to get hurt. (captures the first, too)
the fear to be limited.

[Frozen flames]

the fear to be limited.
what does that mean, if it`s ok to ask..?

[original_psycho]

do you know what things make you afraid of having relationships? any ideas...?
Yes, I do. I'm affraid of getting dumped like I got like two days before Valentine's Day after a rather long relationship. I'm affraid of boys talking behind my back. As in relationship talk. I'm affraid that I'll screw things up; I'm rather crazy and clumsy so I tend o ruin things around me, in general. Umm... Well, I have more strange reasons that I prefer not to mention.

[JoY]

what does that mean, if it`s ok to ask..?
well, when you're involved with someone.. you're no longer single for logical reasons. right. so.. that limits you in what you do. you can't just.. hump a random person, or kiss someone cute on a night out.

well, you can, but it's not morally okay, not faithful, it's dishonest, mean & not loyal. some don't experience this as being limited, those are ones who are happily involved with someone.

[Frozen flames]

Yes, I do. I'm affraid of getting dumped like I got like two days before Valentine's Day after a rather long relationship. I'm affraid of boys talking behind my back. As in relationship talk. I'm affraid that I'll screw things up; I'm rather crazy and clumsy so I tend o ruin things around me, in general. Umm... Well, I have more strange reasons that I prefer not to mention.
hmm.. I understand.
it`s good that you`re aware of those things above.
in a way, they protect you from rushing in to new relationships with wrong guys, and when you find someone you could really love, those things won`t stop you from building a lasting nice relationship.

[JoY]

hmm.. I understand.
it`s good that you`re aware of those things above.
in a way, they protect you from rushing in to new relationships with wrong guys, and when you find someone you could really love, those things won`t stop you from building a lasting nice relationship.
true, but if your fear of being left, being heart-broken & being hurt is irrational, then it can stand in your way of forming wonderful relationships.

[Frozen flames]

well, when you're involved with someone.. you're no longer single for logical reasons. right. so.. that limits you in what you do. you can't just.. hump a random person, or kiss someone cute on a night out.

well, you can, but it's not morally okay, not faithful, it's dishonest, mean & not loyal. some don't experience this as being limited, those are ones who are happily involved with someone.

oh it`s that, I remember being afraid of that thing a few years ago, or I`m not sure if it`s ok to say being afraid of.. it was more like, when I was single I wanted to gat a girl, and ahen I got the girl it didn`t take long before I longed for freedom again and no limitations.. that`s pretty much the thing you were talking too, right?

[JoY]

yeah. I remember being stuck in a relationship & it wasn't working out at ALL. but in the mean time I felt so very restless. I AM very restless. it's amazing my current relationship was able to survive my restlessness so far.

[original_psycho]

hmm.. I understand.
it`s good that you`re aware of those things above.
in a way, they protect you from rushing in to new relationships with wrong guys, and when you find someone you could really love, those things won`t stop you from building a lasting nice relationship.
Well, I try to stay aware of those things, but I tend to rush. I don't have any damn patience. I like to get what I want fast and easy. But I'm also aware that that's gonna hurt me someday, cause I'm quite sensitive. Oh well, I'll just have to wait and see what's gonna happen.

[Frozen flames]

true, but if your fear of being left, being heart-broken & being hurt is irrational, then it can stand in your way of forming wonderful relationships.

that`s true... and very unfortunate.. It would be better if one could deal those problems before getting into a relationship, but I guess it would be possible to find a decent guy and love, and those would be the cure for the problems..
it might be hard tho..

[Frozen flames]

Well, I try to stay aware of those things, but I tend to rush. I don't have any damn patience. I like to get what I want fast and easy. But I'm also aware that that's gonna hurt me someday, cause I'm quite sensitive. Oh well, I'll just have to wait and see what's gonna happen.

well quoting a bit(I like quoting) :

"The only thing that matters is just following your heart
And eventually you'll finally get it right"

[JoY]

that`s true... and very unfortunate.. It would be better if one could deal those problems before getting into a relationship, but I guess it would be possible to find a decent guy and love, and those would be the cure for the problems..
it might be hard tho..
I used to be like that, actually. pretty much fuckingly paranoid. I couldn't afford to love anyone. it could cost me too much & mentally I wasn't stable enough to handle losses & disappointments.

I grew much, though. partly thanks to someone I met, who helped me change my way of thinking & seeing. I can tell myself my fears are irrational, I can say I don't need to be scared, but really, I can't erase all that without any proof & confirmation of the fact I have nothing to be afraid of. & then STILL I'm a scared piece of shit. I'm still paranoid that I'll bore my boyfriend & that he'll leave me.

[original_psycho]

well quoting a bit(I like quoting) :

"The only thing that matters is just following your heart
And eventually you'll finally get it right"
That's what I always end up doing. Most of the times it's wrong but hell, I'm just 14, I'm supposed to be wrong. Oh well, I have plenty of time until I die... I hope I won't die soon...

[Frozen flames]

I'm still paranoid that I'll bore my boyfriend & that he'll leave me.

I know it doesn`t make any difference, and you know it too, but I`ll say it anyway because I like saying things the way they really are. so,
you don`t need to be afraid of boring your boyfriend, because as long as you love each other(which hopefully lasts forever), you could not possibly bore one an other. so maybe you`re afraid that the love would stop existing, and like you said before, umm you know, the limitation thing.
it`s weird how complicated thing a human mind is, we all have one, but still it`s like space where one can explore and find endless new things if one knows how and where to search.

[Sunny]

true, but if your fear of being left, being heart-broken & being hurt is irrational, then it can stand in your way of forming wonderful relationships.

i agree. it's horrible. for a long time, i was so scared that he didn't really mean the things he said, and that it was just a passing fascination. I was too afraid to just enjoy our relationship and look forward to our future... all i kept thinking was "what if he changes his mind? what if he leaves me for someone else?".
my most used phrase at that time was "if you actually mean it". so, he'd say, "i would like us to get a new apartment in soho next fall" and i'd say, "that'd be nice, if you still want to be with me then". it drove him nuts, and i can see why. :/

rah
i suck

[JoY]

yes, that makes sense. & I know.

we do love each other.=)
& the limiting thing is in our case no issue. I don't experience our relationship as something limiting, but as something very liberating. he's freed me from a LOT of fears I used to have so intensely.

I don't ever want my, or his feelings to change. all is so wonderful now & I'd hate myself for it, if my feelings changed, or faded. I definitely would.

[Frozen flames]

That's what I always end up doing. Most of the times it's wrong but hell, I'm just 14, I'm supposed to be wrong. Oh well, I have plenty of time until I die... I hope I won't die soon...
you`re 14..? ok, I didn`t realise.. you have no reason to worry. it`s not even ment to be so that you could figure out everything now, I don`t even know when we are supposed to know these things if ever, but I do know that when you`re 14, you`re just beginning. the more experiences the more one learns.. even the bad experiences teach a lot. I bet you`ll do just fine.

[JoY]

you`re 14..? ok, I didn`t realise.. you have no reason to worry. it`s not even ment to be so that you could figure out everything now, I don`t even know when we are supposed to know these things if ever, but I do know that when you`re 14, you`re just beginning. the more experiences the more one learns.. even the bad experiences teach a lot. I bet you`ll do just fine.
bad experiences are no fun, but bad experiences have definitely taught me most of what I've learned over time.

[Stoffey]

Well I am scared of the following but not so scared I couldn't handle them (well the first one maybe! :rolleyes: )


Spiders

Batteries..well I am scared of putting them in toys or whatever not just holding them etc (childhood story!)

Kids bath toys (any that you wind up or that make noises..not rubber ducks or plain plastic ones.)..once again bad childhood experience/story

hurting myself (common as hell though!)..and it's not really a fear anyway.

[original_psycho]

you`re 14..? ok, I didn`t realise.. you have no reason to worry. it`s not even ment to be so that you could figure out everything now, I don`t even know when we are supposed to know these things if ever, but I do know that when you`re 14, you`re just beginning. the more experiences the more one learns.. even the bad experiences teach a lot. I bet you`ll do just fine.
Yes, I'm 14. Well, some people must think I'm 10 after most of my posts but I don't care.
Anyway, I know friends of mine who had relationships in like 3rd grade. I never liked relationships. I always thought they were gross and pointless. I always liked football, making pranks with my friends and hanging out with the boys. Oh well, I realise that I'll learn a lot over the years and maybe I'll grow up someday.
Right now, I'll just be walking around the school with my best friends jumping around singing NOFX songs... Crap, I'm weird...

[Stoffey]

original_psycho: believe me mate being young and like that is much better than growing up and having all the crap relationships bring! Take it from someone who knows.

[JoY]

Yes, I'm 14. Well, some people must think I'm 10 after most of my posts but I don't care.
Anyway, I know friends of mine who had relationships in like 3rd grade. I never liked relationships. I always thought they were gross and pointless. I always liked football, making pranks with my friends and hanging out with the boys. Oh well, I realise that I'll learn a lot over the years and maybe I'll grow up someday.
Right now, I'll just be walking around the school with my best friends jumping around singing NOFX songs... Crap, I'm weird...
haha, you don't sound like 10 at ALL! silly chick. you just sound like fourteen. find me weird, but I think all those things are goddam normal. I remember I -definitely- wasn't waiting to be in a commited relationship of any kind at the age of fourteen.

[Frozen flames]

Yes, I'm 14. Well, some people must think I'm 10 after most of my posts but I don't care.
Anyway, I know friends of mine who had relationships in like 3rd grade. I never liked relationships. I always thought they were gross and pointless. I always liked football, making pranks with my friends and hanging out with the boys. Oh well, I realise that I'll learn a lot over the years and maybe I'll grow up someday.
Right now, I'll just be walking around the school with my best friends jumping around singing NOFX songs... Crap, I'm weird...

you`re a normal young girl, believe me. there`s nothing wrong with you..
my guess is that within 4 years, you`ll calm down quite a bit, become somewhat more serious, become much more confident in everything(hopefully and most likely) and you`ll be a catch.
I`ve always liked one advise, can`t remember who said it to me, but here`s how it goes: keep your friends close to you, they`re one of the most valuable things in life. (straight translation)

[original_psycho]

original_psycho: believe me mate being young and like that is much better than growing up and having all the crap relationships bring! Take it from someone who knows.
M'kay, thanks for the advice. I already had one crappy relationship and had some rather nice moments but I agree, being young without all those things involved is so much better!

haha, you don't sound like 10 at ALL! silly chick. you just sound like fourteen. find me weird, but I think all those things are goddam normal. I remember I -definitely- wasn't waiting to be in a commited relationship of any kind at the age of fourteen.
Wow, and I tought I was being weird. Phew! I'm just saying that because almost all the girls I know, except my 3 best friends, say that it's compulsary to be fashionable, with at least one boyfriend and to be thin like a freaking stick. I personally disagree, but meh...

[Stoffey]

Errk 14 year olds going out with tons of people seems weird to me actually! I am 18 but didn't have my first proper serious full on relationship until I was 16.

[original_psycho]

you`re a normal young girl, believe me. there`s nothing wrong with you..
my guess is that within 4 years, you`ll calm down quite a bit, become somewhat more serious, become much more confident in everything(hopefully and most likely) and you`ll be a catch.
I`ve always liked one advise, can`t remember who said it to me, but here`s how it goes: keep your friends close to you, they`re one of the most valuable things in life. (straight translation)
It's so nice to hear that I'm normal =)
And what can I say, I'm intending to keep my only 5 true friends (Yes, I found out that out of all the people I know, I only have 5 true friends) close to me and I hope that our friendships will last.

[JoY]

my god, it may be fashionable to have a guy on every finger & to be thin like an anorexic model, but it sure isn't alright, or healthy. definitely not when you're fourteen. those things should worry you, when you're at least twenty. when you're fourteen you should just focuss on growing up in the best, most fun way. that involves eating & doing pointless things, that you simply enjoy. & these things are also required during your further life. simple entertainment & FOOD. food is awesome & great.

& having a guy on every finger isn't the definition of a relationship. that's playing around without having a clue what you're really doing & playing with. it only shows immaturity.

[Stoffey]

I'm sure threy will but at the same time you'll meet and get on with tons of other people that may well end up being your life time pals, the ones you never lose contact with.

[original_psycho]

Errk 14 year olds going out with tons of people seems weird to me actually! I am 18 but didn't have my first proper serious full on relationship until I was 16.
Believe me, I know girls with at least 5 boyfriends and none younger than 15-16... And I find that weird.
Wow, it's me talking, the one who had her first serious relationship for a year or so with a 17 year old...

[original_psycho]

my god, it may be fashionable to have a guy on every finger & to be thin like an anorexic model, but it sure isn't alright, or healthy. definitely not when you're fourteen. those things should worry you, when you're at least twenty. when you're fourteen you should just focuss on growing up in the best, most fun way. that involves eating & doing pointless things, that you simply enjoy. & these things are also required during your further life. simple entertainment & FOOD. food is awesome & great.

& having a guy on every finger isn't the definition of a relationship. that's playing around without having a clue what you're really doing & playing with. it only shows immaturity.
They're 'living' like this since the 5th grade. That's about 11 years old here. And also smoking and drinking and maybe drugs. That seriously ain't right. And they act around like they're the coolest and he most mature... Pfffffff... Riiiiiiiiight...

[original_psycho]

I'm sure threy will but at the same time you'll meet and get on with tons of other people that may well end up being your life time pals, the ones you never lose contact with.
Yeah, you might be right. I hope. Well, I can't see in the future so I'll just have to wait and see...

[JoY]

it'd show *some* maturity, if they knew how to handle all these things; feelings, relationships, respect for others, drugs (alcohol included), nicotine... I'm guessing they can't. haha. I remember I sure as hell couldn't. not even at the age of 17/18!

[original_psycho]

I agree with you, but try to get that into their small heads. They've been cought thousands of times skipping class and going into bars, smoking and drinking, but they just never learn. I really don't care, their lives, their deaths... But meh, it's sad really...

[slit_wrists]

im scared of.....clowns, eyeballs, people that crack their knuckles! and balloons! i used to av a mate that was scared of tin foil and i know somone thats scared of stickers. amazing stuff.......

[the_GoDdEsS]

It'd sound so old and senile if I said "Kids these days..." However, kids these days..

[JoY]

I agree with you, but try to get that into their small heads. They've been cought thousands of times skipping class and going into bars, smoking and drinking, but they just never learn. I really don't care, their lives, their deaths... But meh, it's sad really...
they're missing out on a lot. childishness & the acceptance of the little kid in you. giving that little kid what it needs. MAN, I couldn't ever survive without the little girl in me.

they think they can skip a few steps & fases of growing up & live successfully & happily that way. it'll definitely hit them in the face.

[GBH2]

same here. i'm a fucking ridiculous perfectionist.. at everything.

i'm too much of a slacker too be a perfectionist. straight A student, though.

[Izie]

It'd sound so old and senile if I said "Kids these days..." However, kids these days..

You should see my sister's friends. She calls them idiots, and worse even, they KNOW they're idiots, and still do the things they do. *shakes head*

On topic, I might be afraid of not being good enough, but only my standards count. That's a modified form of the fear of failure I guess. But I have it well controlled.

I'll know tomorrow anyway :/

[ReDeAdOf89]

I found out today that im afraid of people who are freaks

[original_psycho]

they're missing out on a lot. childishness & the acceptance of the little kid in you. giving that little kid what it needs. MAN, I couldn't ever survive without the little girl in me.

they think they can skip a few steps & fases of growing up & live successfully & happily that way. it'll definitely hit them in the face.
I don't know if it's correct to say that I can't live without the little girl in me because I, myself, am a little girl but I'll just say it anyway. Sometimes I'm all serious and bitchy and sometimes (most of the time :o ) I just let loose the little girl in me. They're just missing out the fun of childhood/adolescence and I'm pretty sure they're going to suffer later in life.

[«_ºßäߥ_Ðëvilº_»]

I found out today that im afraid of people who are freaks

you'll be terrified of me then!!

[slit_wrists]

so true so true....

[ReDeAdOf89]

you'll be terrified of me then!!

i dont really know you so right now im not afraid of you
do you do anything thats freaky?

[slit_wrists]

sarah is a VERY freaky person! i wouldnt mess!

[GBH2]

she's nice if you're friends with her :D

[slit_wrists]

i av to go to school wiv her and she very freaky but fun

[«_ºßäߥ_Ðëvilº_»]

Holly u haven't seen the worst of me...
me and charlee = psycho cuckoo land
Holly is an ace person too... :D


BTW i cant think of owt freakish i have done alatey...been boring alately..........wait....

I went into Curry's (a shop that sells computers and stuff) and went to the radios...turned them on and started singing really loud....and we couldnt turn them off or owt...so we ran away...more funny then scary :D

[slit_wrists]

Holly u haven't seen the worst of me...
me and charlee = psycho cuckoo land
Holly is an ace person too... :D


BTW i cant think of owt freakish i have done alatey...been boring alately..........wait....

I went into Curry's (a shop that sells computers and stuff) and went to the radios...turned them on and started singing really loud....and we couldnt turn them off or owt...so we ran away...more funny then scary :D
lol u aint right in ur head chick!! neway i g2g and sleep i got my college interview in da mornin at hud tech at fuckin 10:15! bye xxxxx take care

[«_ºßäߥ_Ðëvilº_»]

lol u aint right in ur head chick!! neway i g2g and sleep i got my college interview in da mornin at hud tech at fuckin 10:15! bye xxxxx take care

Byes holly xxxxx take care :D

[Diamond Dee]

I'm afraid of public speaking, flying (although I'm getting better), losing a loved one, and dying.

[the_GoDdEsS]

Public speaking used to scare the crap out of me until I actually found out that I love it. Ironic, eh?

[Diamond Dee]

Giving presentations scares me to death. I've tried so many things to keep myself calm but it doesn't work. Supposedly people can't tell that I'm terrified but I feel like my heart is going to jump out of my chest. I admire anyone who can do it.

[Anya82]

I looooooooooove speaking in public!! i don't know why......
i just start speaking, and everything flows by itself.

[the_GoDdEsS]

Yeah, I used to have that until a few years ago. Then I sort of had to do them and gradually got used to doing it. Plus, there were a few positive experiences which fixed it all. And now I really like doing it.

[Moose]

I must be a very weird person since I`m not afraid of anything so much that I couldn`t handle that fear.
many peole are afraid of dark, failing, social situations, dieing, high places, being raped or beated up..etc.

my opinion is that fear is a good thing in a way, but only if it`s totally under your control.

first: of course you have fear, possibly you are in denial, or have not realized it yet, or simply have not met it yet.


second: fear is never under your control, thats why its fear, thats what makes it fear.

[Frozen flames]

first: of course you have fear, possibly you are in denial, or have not realized it yet, or simply have not met it yet.


second: fear is never under your control, thats why its fear, thats what makes it fear.

of course I have fears like I know some things are ment to be frightening, but
there isn`t any that I couldn`t handle, at least any of which I`ve met.

If a human being isn`t afraid of anything at all, he isn`t capable of living without help in this world, there are cases who`s amygdala has injuried and they`ve lost the sence of fear, but it has also took effect on other brain functions and made these people uncapable of doing right choices in some situations.

and fear can be under your control. it means that when you begin feeling the fear, you are able stay calm and not panic. so you can control your fear, there are lots of examples of people who have had some deep fears like being afraid of open spaces, spiders, mirrors, flying etc.. but they have learned to deal with their fear.(hypnosis might help)

so, it`s possible to control the fear(someone could say that the fear stops existing,but that`s not true, one just becomes able to handle it)

[Frozen flames]

Yeah, I used to have that until a few years ago. Then I sort of had to do them and gradually got used to doing it. Plus, there were a few positive experiences which fixed it all. And now I really like doing it.

well, guess what, the same thing happened with me. now I`m a substitute teacher and it`s cool to perform in front of the class.
I guess it has something to do with some kind of self confidence.
anyway, it`s very nice and rewarding in a way..

[ReDeAdOf89]

sarah is a VERY freaky person! i wouldnt mess!

Thanks for the heads up

[pulse]

Nothing much.

[Trip Boy]

I'm afraid of bad things happening to the people that I love.

[rock4life09]

I'm afaird of spiders and the exorcist movie :(

[nitropenguin!]

Seriously I can't see how you can go from pasting a TripBoy mask on yourself and trying to fool people to "I'm afraid of bad things happening to the people that I love."

I mean in all respect. It's just hard to take that in, haha.

[NIX-on-the-MAN]

I have Horrible people skills and have a hard time looking people I don't know very well in the eye. Needless to say I am single and it hurts me some days. :( But I diegress. :p

[Reefer]

I have Horrible people skills and have a hard time looking people I don't know very well in the eye.

I do that too - i just feel real weird when i force myself to look ppl in the eye and it sucks because i think your meant to and stuff


fear: knocking over the bong.... :(

[HellDeathscythe666]

Hmm....me, I'm mostly afraid of things I dont really want to know that will make me feel like crap in the end...That and Oopma Loompas from Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, those guys scared me since I was 5... :D