randman21

Thanks randy!

ugh.. u gained another friend! bad boy! lolz =]

And don't worry about me now, you have more than enough of your own stuff to worry about. I'm fine, in fact i feel more positive since the future is now open for me once again, i have a regular job, and for the first time in years i actually know what i'm doing and have some hope/plans for my future.



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Don't mention it. I consider you a friend (despite only knowing you and Jo online i always thought of you both as my friends), so that's the least i can do.

It's important that you keep yourself occupied with something. Speaking from my own experiences (although they can't really compare with what you're going through, but my advice would perhaps be even more important for you) the worst thing you could do is to lock yourself up from the rest of the world and thinking about the bad stuff. It messes you up big time. The hours you spend alone in the company of your dark thoughts can change you for worse. So it's important to keep yourself busy and talk with someone.

I am right. It can be done, although the process won't be easy or short. It took me almost 2 years to put the bad things behind me. I can't say how long will it take for you to get through this, but some things just take a lot of time, and this is deffinitely one of them. I wish you all best with it.

Hey, how are you holding on, buddy? I hope you're alright, or at least as much alright as it gets now

Just remember what i told you. Hold on. You'll carry this forever, something like this is impossible to heal completely, but you'll get through it if you have the will, and eventually you'll be happy again, and perhaps find a girl (i think Jo would want you to be happy, everyone who trully loves somebody would want it so). But give yourself some time, don't rush. If you want to talk about anything, i'm here, and so are the others.

right????????????????

o0o! randy, man, UR on!

i'm soooo sorry about johanna

pretty good thnx!

hey! how are you?!